Crash
Age : 29
Joined : 12 Mar 2008
Posts : 14
Location : northampton
|  Subject: Not Good for a nmm member  Sat Mar 29, 2008 1:10 am | |
| well howdy folks
thought i would get a little covo going i've been with my partner for the best partof three years
we have a beautifull baby girl but..... this is where it gets a bit messed up
i was a bit of a tit .... chatting to an old friend getting a bit carried away with her ...... nothing happened ...get things straight .... but left messages on my phone 
un beknown to me the missus went through my mobile and found the messages
so for about a month i have been working my a*** of to make our relationship work.... then low and be hold .... she has gone away for weekend on the piss .....wait for it ...... 
with an EX-BOYFRIEND and couldn't wait to go ..... i thought i would be ok with this .... nope  it's tearing me apart and i don't know what i can do .....
this is made worse because my most trusted friends are trying there best to keep me together.....which i am most greatfull for  cheers guys but because she knows i am a soft touch....
she will belive that nothing has happenned
i am trying to pluck the courage up to tell her how i feel b ut trust me when i say it's hard
and my poor daughter is now stuck in the middle of a relationship breakdown
what can i do |
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jolima71
Age : 37
Joined : 12 Mar 2008
Posts : 7
Location : in my house
| | Subject: Re: Not Good for a nmm member Sat Mar 29, 2008 1:30 pm | |
| | Crash wrote: | well howdy folks
thought i would get a little covo going i've been with my partner for the best partof three years
we have a beautifull baby girl but..... this is where it gets a bit messed up
i was a bit of a tit .... chatting to an old friend getting a bit carried away with her ...... nothing happened ...get things straight .... but left messages on my phone
un beknown to me the missus went through my mobile and found the messages
so for about a month i have been working my a*** of to make our relationship work.... then low and be hold .... she has gone away for weekend on the piss .....wait for it ......
with an EX-BOYFRIEND and couldn't wait to go ..... i thought i would be ok with this .... nope it's tearing me apart and i don't know what i can do .....
this is made worse because my most trusted friends are trying there best to keep me together.....which i am most greatfull for cheers guys but because she knows i am a soft touch....
she will belive that nothing has happenned
i am trying to pluck the courage up to tell her how i feel b ut trust me when i say it's hard
and my poor daughter is now stuck in the middle of a relationship breakdown
what can i do |
you need to sit and talk to her i reckon she has gone for revenge and to let you know what it feels like
maybe she thinks you dont care anymore? but first you need to think why do you want to stop? is it for her or just for your daughter? if its just for your daughter dont do it,
definetly need to have a heart to heart with your missus though and tell her nothing happened (if it didnt)
and then go from there
hth
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Admin
Age : 38
Joined : 11 Mar 2008
Posts : 31
Location : slottzass
| | Subject: Re: Not Good for a nmm member Sat Mar 29, 2008 5:58 pm | |
| i'd probably just pack, punch the bitch and leave..!!
we never really got on...........  |
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Crash
Age : 29
Joined : 12 Mar 2008
Posts : 14
Location : northampton
| | Subject: Re: Not Good for a nmm member Sat Mar 29, 2008 7:50 pm | |
| update ......
its over we have had a chat.....ha and now i am moving crap out .....
i can't be doing with this any more and we are in agrement.....
our relationship is DEAD 
i will speak to her as soon as she get back on sunday.....
to sort out my roll as a father and how i will forfill that roll
but that is all i will talk about ..... i will NOT give in ANYMORE |
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